Confidence is contagious. See those who have it, study them, emulate them. ‘Mirroring’ is not a loss of personality but a shortcut to winning behaviours, without the costly trial and error experiences.
Month: September 2017
It’s barely a convoluted argument that comparisons to others is one of the most detrimental influencer to our confidence. They are also amongst the top things, which every self-help book or article on self-esteem will prescribe to abstain from, because they are believed to impose a rather heavy social taxation on our self-image. And nothing …
Confidence is… the ability to follow our goals without the world getting in the way.
Not too long ago, I was caught-up in a spinning wheel. I would go through the motions every day at work—the emails, the small chats in the hallways, the back-to-back meetings, the one-on-ones with my manager strategizing about my career. And I would feel completely unmoved. At first, it didn’t feel out of sync. After …
We are often our hardest critics, but remember: The only person you really need to impress is yourself. The only person you can truly fare against is the person you were yesterday.